Milagros Beltran Mendez, 61

Pillar of Philippine Fiesta, a perfectionist, according to her husband Nanding

By Elton Lugay

Mila Mendez died of cardiac arrest September 29, at 2:09 a.m. at St. Luke’s Roosevelt Hospital in New York City, after a long illness, her husband Fernando told The FilAm.

She was the driving force behind the 14-year Philippine Fiesta in America held annually at the Meadowlands Expo Center in Secaucus, New Jersey. “She was a hands-on manager and a perfectionist,” said her husband Nanding.

She is survived by Nanding, their two sons Nathan and Mervin and daughter Makee. Mila is the daughter of Faustino Beltran and Milagros Dado, both deceased. Her siblings are Armando Beltran, Erlinda Tugaoen, Danilo Beltran, Virginia Bautista, Hilario Beltran, Carolina Tolentino, and Isagani Beltran (deceased).

Loida Santos, the Mendez couple’s personal assistant, said she received an early morning text from Nanding saying “Tita Mila has passed away at around 2 a.m.”

Mila was very active in community affairs and services, and served as patron of many young musical talents and stage performers. She had received numerous awards and recognitions through her participation in various Filipino projects. She was a consistent valedictorian throughout her school years, said Nanding.

If you asked Mila her greatest accomplishments, she would tell you it’s raising two sons and keeping a family together with her husband of 36 years.

Older son, Nathan, studied computer science and plays a very significant role in the day-to-day operations of their graphics and special events business. Younger son, Mervin, is into film editing and cinematography.

Mila and Nanding, recognizing the need to be involved in the development and enhancement of skills and talents of Filipino children in the New York Tri-State, launched the search for the Outstanding Filipino American Youth Leaders in 2001. The search was organized through their company, Special Edition Press, Inc.

“Everytime I see her in the NY Metro area she’s always running around like a busy bee. So busy with her Philippine Fiesta and other production events,” writes former co-worker Ana Marie Regaliza-Datuin on Mila’s Facebook wall.

Filmmaker Luis Pedron writes, “Tita Mila, thank you for giving to us numerous years of fun and culture through your event Philippine Fiesta. It will be your legacy to us in the NYC area.”


  1. M. Matthews wrote:

    The Fil-Am community in the New York metro area, has lost a remarkable Filipina American woman who cared so much about her loving family and Filipino Americans from all walks of life.

    At this time, I would like to extend my heartfelt condolences to the Mendez family members during this trying time on the passing of your beloved wife, mother, sister, daughter, community activist, newspaper executive and Filipino cultural promoter.

    God bless you Mila Mendez,

    M. Matthews

  2. In behalf of my family, I would like to extend our deepest condolences and prayers to the bereaved family of Mila Mendez. Although I have met her only on several occasions, I knew then that she has a beautiful soul, so loving to her family specially to Nanding. Seeing them together makes you believe in the wonders of true love. Rest your pretty head dear Mila and be with the Lord for you have done well here on earth.

    Tess Paz Taruc

  3. GBaldisseri wrote:

    Farewell to thee, Mila Beltran-Mendez. You will forever be remembered.

  4. Elton Lugay wrote:

    Funeral arrangements for Tita Mila Mendez

    Funeral Services:

    Wednesday, October 3 (4pm – 9pm)
    (7:30pm ceremonies)

    Thursday, October 4 (4pm – 9pm)
    (7:30pm ceremonies)

    Thomas M. Quinn & Sons Funeral Home
    35-20 Broadway, Long Island City NY 11106
    (718) 721-9200

    Special Mass:

    Saturday, October 6 (10:30am)

    Most Precious Blood Parish
    32-23 36th St, Long Island City NY 11106
    (718) 278-3337

    Burial Services:

    Saturday, October 6 (11:30am)

    St. Michaels Cemetery
    79-02 Astoria Boulevard, East Elmhurst NY 11370
    (718) 278-3240

    • I saw this posting by accident only today and am very sorry and shocked to hear about Mila’s death. May she rest in peace.

      Please extend my condolence to Fernando and children. Am not sure if he has a page on fb or if we are friends in fb. Will check it out.

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